Change cardview and text color of a listview

I have a listview with a card view and inside the card view I have two text, I know how to activate the contextual action bar when I give long press in the list view and how to change the color of the text and the cardview, however I do not know how to change the color of the cardview and text specifically in the listview item that was pressed ... How to detect the exact item that was pressed and change only the widgets that are inside this listview item?

I tried the adapter, but it changes the color of other items ...

@Override
        public void bindView(View view, Context context, Cursor cursor) {
            TextView textClipper = (TextView) view.findViewById(R.id.clipperTextView);
            TextView textDate = (TextView) view.findViewById(R.id.dateTextView);

            cardView = (CardView) view.findViewById(R.id.clipperListCard);
            cardView.setOnLongClickListener(new View.OnLongClickListener() {
                @Override
                public boolean onLongClick(View v) {
                    if(cardView.isSelected()){
                        cardView.setSelected(false);
                        cardView.setCardBackgroundColor(Color.WHITE);
                        Log.i("CARD VIEW", "Esta selecionada!");
                    }else{
                        cardView.setSelected(true);
                        cardView.setCardBackgroundColor(Color.BLUE);
                        Log.i("CARD VIEW", "Não está selecionada!");
                    }

                    return false;
                }
            });

I tried to use xml selector to change the color when pressed, however it does not work for the Card, searching vi that is a bug that exists since 2014 and to this day it seems that it has not been solved ... It simply ignores for the Card, but other widgets work ...

Edit: I can not do it here ... I changed some things but it does not respond to the OnItemLongClickListener .

XML that is thrown in the listview:

<LinearLayout xmlns:android="http://schemas.android.com/apk/res/android"
    android:orientation="vertical" android:layout_width="match_parent"
    android:layout_height="match_parent"
    android:layout_margin="@dimen/clipper_listview">

    <android.support.v7.widget.CardView
        xmlns:card_view="http://schemas.android.com/apk/res-auto"
        android:id="@+id/clipperListCard"
        android:layout_gravity="center"
        android:layout_width="match_parent"
        android:layout_height="wrap_content"
        card_view:cardCornerRadius="4dp"
        android:layout_margin="@dimen/cardview_listitem_margin">

        <RelativeLayout
            android:layout_width="match_parent"
            android:layout_height="wrap_content">

            <LinearLayout
                android:layout_width="wrap_content"
                android:layout_height="wrap_content"
                android:orientation="vertical"
                android:id="@+id/cardListLinear"
                android:layout_margin="@dimen/cardview_content_margin">
            <TextView
                android:layout_width="match_parent"
                android:layout_height="wrap_content"
                android:textAppearance="?android:attr/textAppearanceLarge"
                android:text="Clipper text"
                android:id="@+id/clipperTextView" />

            <TextView
                android:layout_width="match_parent"
                android:layout_height="wrap_content"
                android:text="Data - hora"
                android:id="@+id/dateTextView"/>

            </LinearLayout>

            <CheckBox
                android:layout_width="wrap_content"
                android:layout_height="wrap_content"
                android:layout_alignParentRight="true"
                android:layout_alignParentEnd="true"
                android:layout_centerInParent="true"
                android:id="@+id/checkBox2" />


        </RelativeLayout>
    </android.support.v7.widget.CardView>
</LinearLayout>

Activity ta tab where the listview is:

public void gerarListView(View view){
        clipperListView = (ListView) view.findViewById(R.id.clipperListView);
        TClipper tClipper = new TClipper(view.getContext());
        Cursor cursorClipper = tClipper.getClipperAllLimit();
        final ClipperAdapter clipperAdapter = new ClipperAdapter(view.getContext(), cursorClipper, 0);
        clipperListView.setAdapter(clipperAdapter);
        clipperListView.setDivider(null);
        clipperListView.setChoiceMode(ListView.CHOICE_MODE_MULTIPLE_MODAL);
        clipperListView.setMultiChoiceModeListener(new AbsListView.MultiChoiceModeListener() {
            //chamado cada vez que um item for selecionado
            @Override
            public void onItemCheckedStateChanged(ActionMode mode, int position, long id, boolean checked) {
                int qtItemSelected = clipperListView.getCheckedItemCount();
                mode.setTitle(getResources().getQuantityString(R.plurals.selected_items, qtItemSelected, qtItemSelected));
            }

            //chamado a primeira vez que o action for criado
            @Override
            public boolean onCreateActionMode(ActionMode mode, Menu menu) {
                MenuInflater menuInflater = mode.getMenuInflater();
                menuInflater.inflate(R.menu.menu_tab1_contextual, menu);
                return true;
            }

            //é chamado quando a action é invalidate()
            @Override
            public boolean onPrepareActionMode(ActionMode mode, Menu menu) {
                return false;
            }

            //quando algum item da action for clicado
            @Override
            public boolean onActionItemClicked(ActionMode mode, MenuItem item) {

                switch (item.getItemId()) {
                    case R.id.action_card_remove:
                        Log.i("ACTION", "Menu clicado remove");
                        break;

                }
                mode.finish(); //fechar a action
                return true;
            }

            @Override
            public void onDestroyActionMode(ActionMode mode) {

            }
        });
        clipperListView.setOnItemLongClickListener(new AdapterView.OnItemLongClickListener() {
            @Override
            public boolean onItemLongClick(AdapterView<?> parent, View view, int position, long id) {
                CardView cardView = (CardView) view.findViewById(R.id.clipperListCard);
                if(cardView.isSelected()){
                    cardView.setSelected(false);
                    cardView.setCardBackgroundColor(Color.WHITE);
                    Log.i("CARD VIEW", "Esta selecionada!");
                }else{
                    cardView.setSelected(true);
                    cardView.setCardBackgroundColor(Color.BLUE);
                    Log.i("CARD VIEW", "Não está selecionada!");
                }
                clipperListView.setItemChecked(position, true);
                Log.i("LIST VIEW", "LONG CLICK");
                return false;
            }
        });
    }

Adapter:

private class ClipperAdapter extends CursorAdapter {

        public ClipperAdapter(Context context, Cursor c, int flags) {
            super(context, c, flags);
        }

        @Override
        public View newView(Context context, Cursor cursor, ViewGroup parent) {
            return LayoutInflater.from(context).inflate(R.layout.clipper_main_listview, parent, false);
        }

        @Override
        public void bindView(View view, Context context, Cursor cursor) {
            //if(view==null) {
                TextView textClipper = (TextView) view.findViewById(R.id.clipperTextView);
                TextView textDate = (TextView) view.findViewById(R.id.dateTextView);
                CardView cardView = (CardView) view.findViewById(R.id.clipperListCard);
            //}



            textClipper.setText(cursor.getString(cursor.getColumnIndexOrThrow(ClipperDbContract.ClipperTable.TABELA_COLUNA_TEXT)));
            textDate.setText(
                    cursor.getString(cursor.getColumnIndexOrThrow(ClipperDbContract.ClipperTable.TABELA_COLUNA_DATA)) + " - " +
                            cursor.getString(cursor.getColumnIndexOrThrow(ClipperDbContract.ClipperTable.TABELA_COLUNA_HORA))
            );
        }
    }