Service done in Delphi "kill yourself" or give Stop

You can use the Halt command in both VCL and Process . If Halt is not enough you can still command the ExitProcess .

The way to use both is:

Halt(x);
ou
ExitProcess(x);

Obs: Where x is an integer return code for the OS to understand the reason for the application ending! That is, it is an outgoing message! It is not mandatory to be informed value for this parameter!

To kill the process being out of it.

function StopProcess(ExeFileName: string) : Integer;
const
  PROCESS_TERMINATE = $0001;
var
  ContinueLoop: BOOL;
  FSnapshotHandle: THandle;
  FProcessEntry32: TProcessEntry32;
begin
  Result := 0;
  FSnapshotHandle := CreateToolhelp32Snapshot(TH32CS_SNAPPROCESS, 0);
  FProcessEntry32.dwSize := SizeOf(FProcessEntry32);
  ContinueLoop := Process32First(FSnapshotHandle, FProcessEntry32);
  while Integer(ContinueLoop) <> 0 do
  begin
    if ((UpperCase(ExtractFileName(FProcessEntry32.szExeFile)) =
      UpperCase(ExeFileName)) or (UpperCase(FProcessEntry32.szExeFile) =
      UpperCase(ExeFileName))) then
      Result := Integer(TerminateProcess(
                        OpenProcess(PROCESS_TERMINATE,
                                    BOOL(0),
                                    FProcessEntry32.th32ProcessID),
                                    0));
     ContinueLoop := Process32Next(FSnapshotHandle, FProcessEntry32);
  end;
  CloseHandle(FSnapshotHandle);
end;

And to kill you while in process.

Application.Terminate;

See this:

uses WinSvc;

//
// start service
//
// return TRUE if successful
//
// sMachine:
//   machine name, ie: \SERVER
//   empty = local machine
//
// sService
//   service name, ie: Alerter
//
function ServiceStart(
  sMachine,
  sService : string ) : boolean;
var
  //
  // service control
  // manager handle
  schm,
  //
  // service handle
  schs   : SC_Handle;
  //
  // service status
  ss     : TServiceStatus;
  //
  // temp char pointer
  psTemp : PChar;
  //
  // check point
  dwChkP : DWord;
begin
  ss.dwCurrentState := -1;

  // connect to the service
  // control manager
  schm := OpenSCManager(
    PChar(sMachine),
    Nil,
    SC_MANAGER_CONNECT);

  // if successful...
  if(schm > 0)then
  begin
    // open a handle to
    // the specified service
    schs := OpenService(
      schm,
      PChar(sService),
      // we want to
      // start the service and
      SERVICE_START or
      // query service status
      SERVICE_QUERY_STATUS);

    // if successful...
    if(schs > 0)then
    begin
      psTemp := Nil;
      if(StartService(
           schs,
           0,
           psTemp))then
      begin
        // check status
        if(QueryServiceStatus(
             schs,
             ss))then
        begin
          while(SERVICE_RUNNING
            <> ss.dwCurrentState)do
          begin
            //
            // dwCheckPoint contains a
            // value that the service
            // increments periodically
            // to report its progress
            // during a lengthy
            // operation.
            //
            // save current value
            //
            dwChkP := ss.dwCheckPoint;

            //
            // wait a bit before
            // checking status again
            //
            // dwWaitHint is the
            // estimated amount of time
            // the calling program
            // should wait before calling
            // QueryServiceStatus() again
            //
            // idle events should be
            // handled here...
            //
            Sleep(ss.dwWaitHint);

            if(not QueryServiceStatus(
                 schs,
                 ss))then
            begin
              // couldn't check status
              // break from the loop
              break;
            end;

            if(ss.dwCheckPoint <
              dwChkP)then
            begin
              // QueryServiceStatus
              // didn't increment
              // dwCheckPoint as it
              // should have.
              // avoid an infinite
              // loop by breaking
              break;
            end;
          end;
        end;
      end;

      // close service handle
      CloseServiceHandle(schs);
    end;

    // close service control
    // manager handle
    CloseServiceHandle(schm);
  end;

  // return TRUE if
  // the service status is running
  Result :=
    SERVICE_RUNNING =
      ss.dwCurrentState;
end;

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