I have been understanding why the X server responds to the client's TCP establishment request Y with the RST / ACK flag. I think the problem might be one of the 3 below.
After the above points, the question is:
How can I tell if the port on the Server side is closed? I note that sometimes the connection succeeds ...
How do I know from Wireshak that the package is malformed?
Is the firewall bus internal to the client network or to the server network?